Looking for good hang out spots near galveston/houston texas?

have tried the d'elegance thing in galv, not cly enough, tried bikini beach at nasa, way too young of a crowd, ice age is too over the edge, i am 35, love to dance, have a drink or 2, be around people of my age, with a variety of music, anything near and in between beyonce, lil jon, eagles, fleetwood mac, bon jovi, tlc....and if possible how about mature men who actually have jobs and cars and know how to have a good time while still treating me like a lady? anyone know where these clubs/bars/hang outs might be?