Chinese wife, im irish?

listen man, you got one life to live, don't be trapped under her rule, your not her slave. it doesnt matter shes chinese, its just her. you can't live like this though.(from what you've wrote i woulda shot myself already). first threaten to divorce her, see if she cares, if she does then work from there, if she doesn't **** her, divorce her. fight tooth and nail for your kid. you want the best for her...good luck man